Thomas Hardy
First or Last
If grief come early
  Joy comes late,
  If joy come early
  Grief will wait;
    Aye, my dear and tender!
Wise ones joy them early
While the cheeks are red,
Banish grief till surly
Time has dulled their dread.
  And joy being ours
  Ere youth has flown,
  The later hours
  May find us gone;
    Aye, my dear and tender!